Obviously since I was going to start cooking all meals for Faith & myself, I would need a few of my plastic bowls etc for micro cuisine. I bought new spices & food item to get through the week. I was leaving Tess/Bill everything else. Well, a couple days later when I came home from taking Faith to school I found the rest of my kitchen items sitting in my little front room.
One of the funny things about this is Tess had just had surgery Mon, but could clean my stuff out of the kitchen? Well, I posted it on facebook. She took exception to it & sent me this e-mail:
I see that u r posting things on FB even though I never once said anythg
bad @ you or posted anythg @ our problems...and just for clarification I saw
that u had taken ur things from the pantry so I assumed u wanted all ur stuff so
I put it in ur room.
So ill give you somethg else to write about: I want u moved out by april
1st--and no that ISN'T an april fools joke.
T
As I was going to get it the car Tess was outside telling Bill goodbye. I said to her, "I'm not going anywhere." She made a couple of comments that I couldn't get & I asked her what, but she went in the house.
She & Bill are moving out after their wedding....well I am not moving out & back in. That is ridiculous, costly, & I am not doing it to my daughter.
So, after that, her texts start again. I am starting to dislike the phone more than I already do!
I took Faiths cereal & a few of my bowls to cook with. I was leaving you everything else. And I am not going anywhere. (I had text it, not knowing I would see her.)
(Feb 15, 2012)
Tess OK. We can either sit n talk things out or we can live like this for the next 6 months...
Tess Seriously Nona. This isn't good for any of us. When u get home this afternoon, lets sit down n try to get this worked out...
Tess OK. We can either sit n talk things out or we can live like this for the next 6 months...
Tess Seriously Nona. This isn't good for any of us. When u get home this afternoon, lets sit down n try to get this worked out...
Me - What is there to talk about? You said I was treating you badly and took advantage of you and I didn't like how you were treating me and being rude to Kerry was unnecessary.
Tess Don't u think that's exactly why we need to talk? Yes I was feeling like I was doing everything. Do u realize u never ask me how things r? U never ask if I need anythg? U never ask if I'm doing OK or not? Those kinds of things... I'm not sure what u mean @ how I was treating u or when it was happening, but that's something I should know @ so I can work on it isn't it?
Tess I will b apologizing to Kerry.
Me - Couldn't be cause you pretty much blew r friendship to hell. I trusted u & you betrayed that trust.
Tess Well either u or kerry or both of u were lying to me because she would tell me one thing and you would tell me the opposite--I don't like being lied to that broke my trust too...
Me - Well if you thought I lied...what was she supposed to say when confronted?
Tess She kept telling me she didn't say those things! So someone was lying and I don't appreciate it...but that's done with...we have nothing to do with them so u guys could save ur friendship...I just wrote her to apologize and now I won't contact her again.
(But she did. She appologized, but then went on. She was texting her as I stood there! She kept going on about it till my friend finally got annoyed (which can take years) & told her to get over herself.)
Tess Do u even care how I'm doing after this surgery?
Tess I'm just trying to let u know how I'm feeling right now... Get things on both sides out in the open so that hopefully we can get past all of this...
Me - Bill text me @ your surgery, so I knew how you were. After your texts the other day telling me off I figured we were done.
Tess Is that really what u want?
Tess I know he text u. He told me. Would u have asked if he hadn't have text?
Me - I knew he'd let me know. I wasn't concerned with him taking care of u. Again you told me off & after the last you told me off I figured I wld stay to myself. When I got home you text you n Bill were moving & that was that.
Tess Still didn't answer my question Nona. Would u have even asked? Do u even care?
Tess Bill n I had just talked a couple days b4 I told u @ moving and I thought I better let u know...
Me - Yes I care & always will but r friendship has been...perhaps beyond repair.
Tess So this is how its gonna b the next 7-8 months? And what @ my wedding?
Me - You already took over the wedding stuff. I have the ribbon & will get that to you.
Tess I assume that means u don't want to b in it. What @ bug?
Me - She plans on being in it as far as I know.
Tess OK. Do u want to send ur dress back or keep it?
Me - I am keeping it. I have my boots etc. I paid for it so might as well.
Tess I was just saying u could get ur $ back if u wanted too.K. Then I just need to get bugs things.
Me - I am getting it already.
Tess R u sure?
Me - I've already ordered. And I said I wld b4
Tess OK. Thank u.
That was the last of the conversation & I haven't said anything since except this is the potato salad with deviled eggs.
No comments:
Post a Comment