Showing posts with label Connor 2010. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Connor 2010. Show all posts

Friday, May 6, 2011

My son? Fraud? - 4 May 2011

I had a call from Connor's F. Mom. Apparently, he tried to cash the check she wrote for his school pictures as the cafeteria in school. Uhuh. Guess Sunday we will have a talk on fraud, stealing & jail time.

Second he has been taking things that are not his. F Dad went out & caught Connor messing in the freezer. Connor's response? "It wasn't me!" Uhuh again. The freezer must have gotten hungry & tried to eat him! Ugh.

I guess F Mom called the case manager & was waiting on a call back as she had no idea what consequense to give Connor for the first issue. I love my son, what can I say?

She also pointed out that she didn't think I should buy/give him things when I come see him this weekend. Well, that is all fine & good, but it is a time for my whole family to be together & have fun. And Las Cruces is not the most exciting town in the world to keep busy in.

Besides, Sunday is my day! Mum of three! :):):) :)

Thursday, October 14, 2010

Another day in paradise 14 Oct 2010

I talked to Connor last night. He wasn't all happy cheerful like he was last week. He sounded down; tired.  The nurse called me earlier @ a medication change. They wanted to stop his Seroquel, which they had increased last week, & put him on Risperdal instead. I wonder how many years we are going to go through the same thing.

The increase in Seroquel made him flail around like a fish out of water. I know as it did the same thing 2 yrs ago when he was in the RTC in Albuquerque. We were up there for Christmas & he jabbered non-stop & I don't just mean he talked a lot, I mean he could not stop at all & he flailed his hands like people in the wheel chairs that have no control over their motor skills. That is a side affect to the meds called dyskensia. It can become permanant.

Three weeks & he isn't stable yet. He wants me to come see him & I want to, but the visitation is horrible, they only allow 1 hr per a day. I was hoping he would be placed so I could go meet him & bring him some of his things. I called yesterday & I just called again. Mental health care is so sad.

It was 9:05 pm when the nurse called me last night. Connor had gotten into an altercation with a peer. Ah, great. Here I was thinking he was losing his touch!

The peer turned off the tv, upsetting Connor. Connor went to turn it on & the kid touch Connor. Well, that was not a good idea. Touch a mad Connor is like sticking your hand in a blender that is on. Stupid. So, my son, punched him in the nose. The child has a split lip & redness & his mother may press charges. Ooh! Fun.

Here is my question:  Why wan't someone THERE as soon as they saw these two were upset? Anyone running a facility with mentall ill patients here? I have not heard anything else, but I understand @ a mum being upset. Connor was getting hurt a great deal at Desert Hills in Albuquerque a couple yrs ago, but it would have been the facility I sued.

The lady at Mtn View called & wants to know what is going on with Connor. Stand in line, so do I & I am him mother! She said he's been out 21 days now (yesterday), so I will probably go & un enroll him tomorrow. Great. He isn't even getting schooling right now. Just what he needs when he is so behind as it is. Maybe I should take my hypnotherapist to Congress. Give them a dose & maybe they can wake up & help parents take care of kids across our country better. It isn't just mental health here. They don't want to deal with it, they don't want to give them care & then they want to know why some young adult just shot everyone up. Ugh. Morons!