Saturday, September 24, 2011

Jim Las Cruces, Text & bike purchases - 29 July 2011

In the counseling session Jim made a comment @ how I never tell him stuff & he didn't know why. "I don't know if she doesn't think I am interested or what."

I held my tongue & after we got outside he asked where we were going next. I told him I would like to tell him where to go! He said I just wish I wasn't around. Darn right! My kids wouldn't have to go through the roller coaster of his coming & going. It was a year before he came down this time! He chose to move away from them. Basically I told him if the world was flat I would give him a push over the edge.

After all this we went to Barnes & Noble. This is what he text me inside:

you are right.. I left due to my own demons and being selfish and not thinking of you or our children and I made many mistakes in our relationship. I understand your anger and dislike for me. I just dont understand why when I ask you a question you never tell me an honest whole answer about our childrens welfare and you have kept me out of the loop by your own choice for your own reasons. I do care..You and I are not good for each others health and need to live 1000 miles apart. Thank you for being their Mother. I cant think of a better Mom then you for our children. I appologize for my actions and my words.

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What is so amusing about these "compliments" is how he will turn right around & use anything I or the kids tell him & use them to slam me.
 
Here was the issue with bikes. Both Ian & Faith were going to use their Christmas gift cards to purchase themselves each a new bike.
 
30 July 2011
 
Since you got paid early, it would show Connor's counselor your willingness to be involved if you went there Monday for that first face to face counseling session.
 
I did not get paid early. I do get paid until Monday. I have to be back to Iowa on Sunday night.
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I tried to pay for their bikes with my ATM card check the receipt you will see it was declined and I had to use my cash. I have $100 left to make it back to Iowa.
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You weren't to buy them bikes!
 
 

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